I never said you had to overlook it. If you want to be pained by comments that such people say, then so be it, though I know it can't be helped. People are cruel and two faced and every other dispicable trait imaginable, but that's always been the case and will never change. Even so, calling them such isn't doing any favors. I don't agree with the things said, but I don't agree that we should put them down as well. So they have some extreme opinions, many of which are hurtful - I don't think they're about to change them even so.
I know this doesn't ease the pain, but what else can you do but suck it up and move on. Look for the better in people instead of standing wounded on their thorns.
The whether or not I'm going republican or democrat: I'm voting for McCain just because we need to balance the democrats out. Balance of power and all that. Usually I go Democratic.
/end my portion of the discussion. I dislike political stuff even though I wind up in them sometimes. xD