first off, remember, tak, that i love you and you know this! please do not be too peeved at me!
if you do not wish to assist peeps, that is your right and privilage, of course - but i thank god for the beloved blighties who felt differently about newbies when i was in that position.
without the constant questioning and begging for assistance i did when i first showed up (hell, i still do it now, and i am supposedly an elder player! ), i would not the be regal personage i am now.
and that is just for vel! now that i am playing mw, its even worse!
understand, i do know how painful it can be to undergo constant begging while you are trying to play, and i feel for you! do not get the impression that i am so goldenhearted as to not get frustrated by newbies as well.
our beloved game is a niche game. it most likely always will be. i am not an idiot - i know mere survival is the best we can hope for at this point in time. my personal feeling is that part of that survival is being as encouraging to newbies as you can be.
don't hand them the game on a silver platter, of course, but at least i try to find someone to help them if i can't for whatever reason. new students need a teacher or two!