hehe, what I had to experience in the last weeks is that it became harder and harder for ME to find people wanting to group with me.
Although I am playing since March I am "only" 79 KNoC (with a bit of 36 Mage). now, when I post in Market (only channel with enough players :) ) that I am looking for group I usually get NONE, ZERO, NADA replies.
the only people that I find to group with are
a) guildies (when they are on)
b) people I know from playing the game, but usually 2nd or 3rd school levelling
My problem - put simply - is that I am one of the minority people not having a 100 at all. and most of my other people I know are already levelling their second or third class. so they are far away in rating screwing the XP I earn.
I am not first place ADV (maybe the time I did Flaxen Bolts and Dim Spheres for the trees on my plot would have made me 100 in KNoC already, hehe) but I can only say that sometimes I would love to have a group I can hunt with.
It's not so much the "leech"-factor, it is more about having a GROUP.
I think it's boring to kill Fire Opal Golems for hours and hours - which I did for my last level. but 4 Hours at the Fire Opals for ONE level is really not fun.
Face it - all the groups at Rating 80+ are at the Satyr Isles or at the EDL Fyakkis. So if I want to fight with guys and gals in my range I have to go there, too.
And since for some weeks our guild people have been rather small I am forced to send tells out to people I know.
Believe me, I feel ashamed, to be forced to ask other people all the time to hunt. I am not around for the leeching, I want COMPANY. it's much more fun to be around with peeps and talking instead of doing a solo session at some golems.
But what I never really liked was joining a group where I couldn't do damage at all. I am now 79 KNoC, got new armor and I am suddenly helpful to kill mobs up to lvl 100.
this is much more fun than just standing there and watching other people kill the mobs while I can do nothing.
long talk, little message: groups are hard to find these days, if you are not already 100.
Or maybe people underestimate the power a 79 KNoC can have :))