You are correct Ranqthas, many is subjective, as is referencing "experts" when the sources are unidentified.
I passed through Bristugo and observed 1 player that stayed near the character, making sarcastic comments the entire time. However, this player is a 13 year old male, who, I conjecture, is trying to look mature and worldly and I have some slight curiousity as to how his parents would feel on this subject.
I observed 1 player in marketplace speculate as to the name, when the reason was explained, she expressed some great amazement that such a t-shirt existed and was official gear. There were some 2-3 others in market that also stated disapproval of the shirt, as well as another 3-4 that didn't take offense.
I observed another player express offense at the character, when the situation was explained, she expressed disgust, yes, disgust at the t-shirt. She mentioned that she has friends with alternative lifestyles; however felt it was not appropriate for the environment of the game.
Another friend that logged in very late in the evening mentioned to me that her FATHER told her about the character in Bristugo and wondered what the game was coming to. I explained that it was a reaction to the t-shirt and that it was mentioned in the forums. She told me that her father was concerned and if the game was headed in such a direction, would cancel all his accounts.
3 other players that I know of also made comments regarding the "stupidity" of the shirt and it's inappropriateness in a game.
I think the point to be made is that it's not prejudice or intolerance to the concept of sexual orientation (although there might be some of that in some % of the populace), but that there is no need for any promotion of sexual orientation in this game, one way or another.
It's not a matter of choosing camps, who is offended versus who is not offended.
I very much doubt that anyone would have been offended had VI NEVER put up the t-shirt. However, now that they have, there are players that ARE offended with it's existence.
Personally, I would find expression of ANY sexual orientation as game sponsored gear to be in poor taste, as I feel it has no place/bearing on the game.
I don't care if it's heterosexual humans, lesbian dryads, man-loving dwarves, saris loving dragons; there's no call for it.
We are a mix of races, ages, genders, religious beliefs and sexual orientations, as such, all views should be respected, considered and not one or another promoted on official gear.
So, to sum up, my numbers are taken from occasional visits through Bristugo, marketplace feedback when it was brought up as well as a few private tells/queries regarding the character. When 9 out of 10 people discussing the incident with me are anti- and only 1 is indifferent, then that's MANY to me.