If someone feels like their only response to a person's argument is to attack the person,then they probably 1don't have a response for the person's argument. If a person doesn't respond at all it can be for many reasons (such as they think the whole thing has become too ridiulous to dignify with a response, I do that a lot) but if they respond by attacking it appears to me like it's because they don't have a logical response.
If they do the economy right nobody will have to wait out a deathpoint reduction. For a minor sum they'll be able to buy the food and that'll be that. It'll be a busy work step for them sort of comparable to having to repair your equipment in EQ2 when you die. A nuisance but that's it. In exchange, the confectioners feel loved and appreciated (for whatever that's worth).
If they do the economy wrong, then MANY people may feel like they have to wait out a deathpoint reduction. Even if you don't die a lot, if you die more then once every 24 hours on average it's going to start mounting up and after a few weeks there will be people in that boat, even if they don't die many times in a short period of time. Ironically, it'll be the people who play a LOT who will tend to be in more trouble since they're online more thus more likely to die multiple times within a 24 hours period. Of course, if they're online a lot then an hour wait won't be as big a deal as it would be for someone who only has two hours to play.
I wish it was possible to plug the economics of all this into a spreadsheet and have the answer just pop right out.
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I'm sorry but I think a chocolate golem is a bit too much to take.
I'm still of the opinion that there has to be an unavoidable cost to the confectioner when making stuff which gives him experience. This will encourage him to try to recover the cost by selling the results. The cost doesn't need to be high, just high enough to make him want to do something about it.
If everything can be supplied by other classes (whether adventurer or crafter) all what will do is encourage confectioners to also have those other classes.